How to Channel the Rom-Com Frazzled Woman-Core for the Holidays

With the holidays right around the corner, embrace your inner rom-com frazzled woman to inspire your wardrobe for the festive season

Rom-com fans can concur that the 2000s main character of the genre requires three things: a gorgeous love interest, a cool corporate job, and an organized chaos of layering outerwear, baker boy hats, earth-toned corduroys, scarves, and knitwear with a touch of messy hair. The third prerequisite has officially been given a name: the Rom-Com Frazzled Woman-Core—or more popularly known as the Frazzled English Woman aesthetic.

^{Renée Zellweger as Bridget Jones in Bridget Jones’s Diary}

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A Brief History of the Rom-Com Frazzled Woman-Core

Though often only deemed appropriate to watch during Valentine’s Day or Christmas, romantic comedies are comfort food in cinematic form. The formulaic genre reliably serves silliness, unadulterated joy, and happy endings—a childlike treat to the hearts of adults. The film usually follows a quirky but endearing protagonist for whom everything sort of works out in the end. It’s not quite possible to live in that kind of happy ending in reality, but the rom-com core is about dressing like it is.

^{Kate Winslet in The Holiday}

Since last year, TikTok creators have been emulating the recognizable personas of niche main characters, taking sartorial cues from the quintessential British romantic comedies on our watchlists for the holidays. She is the everywoman who lets herself slide through gradations of yearning and heartbreak—while still dressing in a way that lets her witty humor and harried personality shine through.

@caitlinann_

For all my bridget jones girlies

♬ Suddenly I See – KT Tunstall

Breaking Down the Frazzled English Woman Core

At its core, the frazzled woman aesthetic is an ode to messy layering and a play on textures à la Kate Winslet in The Holiday, Keira Knightley in Love Actually, and Renée Zellweger as Bridget Jones. The style attributes a series of wardrobe criteria to the archetype: scarves, claw clips, cardigans, knee-high boots, thick coats, flared trousers, and midi skirts in muted tones. The trend places a strong emphasis on coziness—after all, two of its prominent muses come from Christmas movies—so a comfy sweater or a cashmere cardigan is essential. Overall, her fashion is about messy effortlessness; she is befuddled, accident-prone, and artfully disheveled, with either a book or a coffee in hand. 

^{The skinny scarf is a Frazzled Woman’s staple}

^{The messy updo is crucial to this character}

A little bit of quirkiness is crucial to this character. In addition to the creative layering, a capacious bag, pageboy cap, heavy pendants, chunky belts, and other quintessential accessories are key.

When it comes to glam, the rom-com frazzled woman embraces a haphazard routine—she’s often seen wearing her hair naturally down and hand-combed, tied to a messy ponytail (tendrils framing the face), or swept up in a messy claw-clip updo. For makeup, stick to the basics; think subtle eyeliner, a touch of blush, and a “my lips but better” lipstick.

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@teenski1

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♬ Frazzled English Woman Tutorial – Teenski

While the aesthetic might feel a bit like stepping into an impossible rom-com, the main takeaway is that nobody has it together all the time—we all have our messy moments. So, why not embrace the season with a quirky sweater? Who knows, it could be your ticket to a sweet, accidental meet-cute involving spilled hot chocolate and a golden retriever (or some other adorably awkward mishap)! And if not, there’s still a certain joy in embracing your charming, frazzled side.

^{Keira Knightley in Love Actually}

^{Renée Zellweger in Bridget Jones: The Edge of Reason}

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